1# - The group leader section will be changed to a section were you can invite someone (of opposing ideals) to debate with individually, no one may join in but you two, and you can debate till the issue is solved, of course you do not have to participate and the invitiation will be threw a PM not a forum topic so someone is not forced into doing so. If you both agree a topic will be opened about what you want to debate and the issue will be solved.
2# - Do you agree with this, or the "Group leader" idea?
(I personally choose #1)